I Grew Up In A Racist Militia: 5 Things I Learned
It’s satisfying to think of those people as dumb fuckups the world is rapidly leaving behind; bumbling cartoon characters like the Nazis in an Indiana Jones movie. But here’s the reality: If you grab any member of a hate group and make them tell you about their formative years, you quickly find out they never really had a chance.
Like “Pieter,” a regular guy who was raised in 1980s South Africa by members of the Afrikaner Resistance Movement (AWB), white supremacists who thought apartheid was far too generous to black citizens. We asked him what it’s like to wake up one day and realize you’re the villain in somebody else’s action movie, and he said …
No one likes to believe they’re part of the herd. You’re not one of the sheep who gets sucked in by propaganda and inane slogans! Why, if you’d grown up under Hitler’s rule, you’d have spent every night sneaking Jews out of the country! The reality, though, is that when you’re raised in a bubble of rabid hatred from birth, your chances of not turning into an asshole are small. With that in mind, here’s how Pieter spent his childhood:
“Every kid needed to know how to shoot [and] what to do in case of war with the blacks. I went on weekend trips to the countryside with other AWB families for shooting practice and defense training.”
In one exercise, Pieter had to shoot cutouts of Nelson Mandela and other black politicians attached to hay bales to simulate an “invasion.” They would also build pillboxes and electric fences for white families who requested them, every action pounding the same message into the brain of every member: It’s us or them, and we must strike first.
Similar camps are still around today, incidentally, and are run by a not-even-trying-to-pretend-they-aren’t-Nazis organization called Kommandokorps. Racism isn’t always subtle, kids.
When I was six or seven, [I was with my] dad at a park. He pointed to a white in a business suit and a black beggar underneath a tree. [He said] ‘White men understand how to work, and it’s up to whites to tell blacks how to work.’ It’s easy now to see how wrong that is, but when you’re six, you believe what your parents say.”
“I was taught that whites were ‘scientifically’ smarter and built up the country, while [blacks] sat and did nothing. I was told about how other black-run countries in Africa fell into war and communism — it was up to white Afrikaners to keep a nation of stability. The fewer blacks, the better off it would be.”
Unlike her siblings, my aunt hated the system after she was told to cut all ties with her black friends at age 12. As soon as she could, she moved out.” Pieter didn’t even consider making that same choice because, well, why would he? According to everything he’d been raised to believe, it’d be the equivalent of one of the Walking Dead survivors deciding to join the zombies.
4 Love Is Earned With Violence
“If they saw an AWB member beat down a black guy, then they might be ready for our faction. I still remember my dad watching TV with others when [a violent incident] was reported and he would go, ‘We need [the perpetrator]! Let’s meet him outside the jail.'”
Most young males are born with a biological urge to earn their fathers’ approval — there are kids out there who played sports they hated for 12 straight years just to get a pat on the back from dad. Well, Pieter’s father gave his thumbs up to guys who beat up black people, so that’s what Pieter did.
“All the young members did. We felt like it was making a difference. It showed our superiority. It made our parents proud that we were doing our part. It started out with little things — we saw a black kid our age, we threw rocks at them.
One of my neighbors was an elderly man who would cheer us on if it happened near his house. ‘Get that kaffir!'” [Note: “Kaffir” is basically South Africa’s n-word.]
Pieter believes he beat at least 20 people, if not more. And it worked — he earned his father’s approval. “My dad once got me an authentic WWII Nazi badge because of how proud he was when he found out how I was doing my part. I still have it.”
3 You Slowly Begin To Notice Society Turn Against You
“There were a lot of AWB when I was growing up, and many in power looked the other way. Everyone I attacked didn’t contact the police. My dad, who did more violent things, was never once visited by the police. In 1993, AWB (including my dad) broke into [negotiations to end apartheid] by driving a car through the front of the building, yelling at politicians and urinating everywhere.”
“We were taught to use ‘kaffir’ as the name for blacks. Even in the apartheid government, it was largely illegal to say. In the multi-race but segregated army, calling a black soldier that would get you punishment.
That’s how bad it is. In Blood Diamond and Lethal Weapon 2, the black characters’ extremely angry response is downplayed from what it would be [in real life].”
But as apartheid started going out of style at approximately the same rate as parachute pants, the now-multiracial police stopped turning a blind eye. Pieter recalled the aftermath of the Battle of Ventersdorp, a violent confrontation between the AWB and the police which left three AWB men dead.
“My dad knew some of the people. Angry, he called some other members and left that night. He came back in the morning with blood on him.
That breakfast, he talked about beating blacks for what ‘they’ did and wanting to even the score. That encouraged me to go out with my friends and do the same. I was only 12, but we still went out to search for someone to injure.”
2 It Takes A Lot Of Disillusionment To Break Out Of Your Programming
Quick history lesson: The apartheid government shoved various black ethnic groups into a variety of pocket-sized puppet states and gave them token sovereignty in exchange for being forced to live in glorified slums. The Republic of Bophuthatswana, commonly called “Bop,” was one of them.
“My dad was upset he got there too late, but he knew the AWB lost badly. I saw what happened on TV and I asked how many AWB died. He said none. When I told him about what I saw, he said it was faked. But everyone said we lost.
I couldn’t shake it off. If we were the best race, then why did we keep losing? We were always told other countries didn’t appreciate what we were doing. Now maybe the reason the governments were trying to stop us was because we were [making things worse].
I went to my dad and brought this up, but the more he went on about needing separation of races and how we were still superior because they won by being more brutal, it hit me how much of it was bullshit. The AWB did way more brutal things.”
“I can’t tell you how much fear and apprehension I had that night … I went to the library the next day to see international papers on the incident. I knew the AWB wasn’t liked, but every article said we were hated.” And so Pieter had his moment of realization:
“We were the bad guys.”
1 Your Views Can Change, But The Guilt Is Forever
That night, I came back home to two suitcases outside the door. Just like that, I was cut off from most of my family.” Pieter’s aunt took him in and helped him along the long road to rehabilitation. For starters, he had to rid himself of that annoying little habit of constantly dropping his country’s most offensive racial slur.
“I embarrassed my aunt at the first dinner party she hosted because I called one of the black guests a kaffir.
That was quickly remedied when she told him how I was raised in an AWB household and was getting away from that, but I remember that look of hurt and anger. I saw what the word really was for the first time.”
But a human life doesn’t come with a rewind button, and Pieter’s past can’t be undone. Think about the worst thing you did as a teenager, the memory that makes you cringe, that one you’d erase from your brain if somebody invented a machine that could do it. Imagine you have hundreds of many worse memories, of terrified faces of victims, of the sound of their screams. You could try to remind yourself that it was all brainwashing, that anybody would have done the same if raised in that environment. And yet your memories are not of someone else delivering the beatings. It was you.
“I’ve … tried to come to terms with what I did. All the people I beat, all the property destruction. I need to live with that. I was a different person, but that doesn’t change what I did. The neighborhoods have changed so much since I did that, so I can’t apologize or receive forgiveness. I sure as hell will never get closure on what I did in the AWB.”
The AWB is mostly gone now, down to around 5,000 members from its ’80s peak of 70,000. That’s a sign of progress, and were this an inspirational movie, Pieter’s dad would have come to a deathbed realization and told his son that he was proud of him. But sometimes doing the right thing means you don’t get that happy ending. Pieter never saw his father again. According to his brother, right up until he died, “He never talked about me since the day he threw me out of the house.”
Source: Cracked|| By Evan V. Symon
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